29 June 2011

18 weeks!





How far along? 18 weeks now!
Weight gain/loss: 116.0 is what my scale tells me. So I guess a half a pound!
Maternity clothes? No but I Totally feel like I have muffin top!
Stretch marks? None
Sleep? For some reason I can't get comfortable! I am already finding it to be hard to sleep on my belly.
Best moment this week? Being told I have a bump now!
Food cravings: I want to eat everything! Gender: Unknown still
Belly button in or out? Still in
Movement? Yep! I feel little kicks here and there!
What I miss? Good sleep!
What I'm looking forward to: Having a cute round belly again!

26 June 2011

Fun Survey about my first Pregnancy

[About Mommy and Pregnancy]]
Mommy's Full Name: Anna Marie Kirk

Age When Pregnant: 25 to 26

Current Age: 27

How Far along were you when you found out?: I think I tested at around 5 weeks.

Still with the father?: Yes


What was your first reaction when you found out you were pregnant?: Excited! We wanted to have a family. I wanted to have a baby and here we were!


How did the Father react?: Seemed excited and shocked it happened a lot faster than we thought. He totally thought there would be a lot more "baby-making time" HA!


How did your parents take the news?: Excitement all around


How did you feel about your first ultra sound?: I only got ONE ultrasound and I was SOOOOO excited! I couldn't wait to find out the gender of our little one.


When I heard the heart beat for the first time?: At 10 weeks, I rented my own fetal doppler because I wasn't going to hear or see anything until 12 weeks. I couldn't wait that long and was freaking out that something could happen.


What month did you find out the sex of the baby?: In December, towards the end of December. I had hoped maybe we would know before Christmas but my ultrasound wasn't scheduled until after.


Where you happy about the sex of the baby?: I was happy about my baby period. We had an inkling and I guess secretly hoped our first would be a boy and that's exactly what we got!


What were your cravings?: Sugar everything! I wanted everything sweet! Cake, doughnuts, brownies, chocolate. And of course just wanted to eat everything in general but mostly it was sugary-stuff.

Did you exercise when you were pregnant?: No, I probably should've but I never can find the motivation to work out. Pregnant or not pregnant.


How much weight did you gain?: Almost 50 pounds. A little more than what I probably should have but in the end it was all worth it.


Did you get morning sickness?: In the first trimester yes. It was mostly just feeling nauseous but once I would eat some toast or something I'd be fine.


Did you enjoy wearing maternity clothes?: I was definitely excited to start wearing them and then to my chagrin realized that I didn't fit any of them until after like 6 months.


What books did you read when you were pregnant?: What to Expect, The Pregnancy Journal


Did you attend any pregnancy classes like LaMaze? I went to almost all the classes offered at the hospital. Breastfeeding and a Labor class and a how to take care of baby class.


Overall...Describe your pregnancy?: Easy. I had a fairly easy first trimester, great second, and while the third definitely was the hardest it was all worth it!


[[About the Delivery]]
How did you know you were in labor?: I started to feel these cramps like every so often on May 19th in the evening.

Did your water break?: My water broke later on when I was on the toilet of all places!


What were you contractions like?: At first they felt like light menstrual cramps and progressed as my labor progressed to a lot more intense like.


How long were you in labor?: This one still confuses me. Is labor just when you start getting contractions? Or when you actually start pushing? Both? Just one? Anyways if we count it all I was in "labor" for 18 hours altogether with like 2 hours of pushing.


Epidural?: I tried to labor as long as I could naturally but by 11am I was so exhausted working through the contractions that I needed something. They checked me at 6cm and then came again to see if I had progressed and when I hadn't, they came back with the Doctor.


Who was in the delivery room with you?: Just Andy


Was it an easy delivery?: I don't feel like it was because I was really working on getting through those contractions. Perhaps if I had gotten an epidural right away it would've felt easier? Then when I started pushing it felt like forever!


Did you cry during labor?: At one point when the contractions were just non-stop and I was sooo tired, that's when I got the nurse to get me the epidural.


[[About the Baby]]

Baby's Full Name: Wilson Thomas Kirk


Birth Date: Thursday, May 20, 2010


Time Born: 3:23 pm


Gender: Boy


Lenghth: Officially as 21.75 but our other record says 21.5 inches long.


Weight: 7 pounds and 11 ounces


What was the first thing you said to your baby?: "Hi little baby." It's all I could think of. Here he was finally!


Who visited you and the baby at the hospital? Lots of people, our parents, my brother and his girlfriend, friends, and some other family.


Did you breast feed?: Yes, it was sooo nerve wracking though because I wasn't expressing anything and I don't think Wilson was getting anything. I wish now I had at least supplemented even at the hospital. He wanted to eat right away.


What was the first night being a parent like? Sooo tiring, now I have this little baby to take care of! What was I doing?!?


Did you get sleep? Not much.


When did you go home?: I think it was Saturday evening.


[[Present Time]]
How old is your baby now?: 13 months old


Still with the Father?: Yes


Who does your baby look like know?: Mostly me with maybe a sprinkle of Andy? Everyone says he is definitely my child.


Your baby's current milestone achievement?: Uhh.. teething? We are still working on walking, stubborn boy!


Whats your baby's favorite thing to do? Get into everything! Climb whatever he can.


Whats your baby's favorite toy? That's hard to say, he plays with all his little toys, but I guess his pal, Scout. This stuffed animal toy that plays music and sings.


What is it like being a parent?: The most insanely crazy thing you could ever possibly WANT to do to yourself. It's amazing how one little person is your whole world.


Ready for another one?: I'm already on it! haha!

24 June 2011

Milspouse Friday#2





Are you a different person than you were five years ago? submitted by Sisterly Thoughts

Of course I am! Isn't everyone slowly changing little things about themselves consciously and unconsciously? One big different thing is I used to bite my nails really really bad and I made the effort to quit. This took a lot of willpower because I had been biting my nails for as long as I could remember. Another thing is as I got older I learned to curb my pottymouth. I realized that the words that were coming out of my mouth weren't giving me respect or letting people see me for me. Don't get me wrong a curse word still will come out my mouth every now and then, but mostly if something drops on my toe or if something I didn't want to happen, happens.

If you could go on Amazing Race, who would you take with you as your partner and why? submitted by Thoughts from a Poekitten

I probably should say my husband right? Only I don't think we would travel well together! I just don't think he would do well on the show, but I've not watched too much of the show to know really what they do except a lot of traveling? I would say I would take my best friend Shawna because she LOVES The Amazing Race so I think she at the very least would have that advantage! Plus I would love to spend the time with her.


Does Facebook or Twitter actually bring more stress or good in to your life? submitted by Just an Arizona Girl

I would say it brings more good, but it does bring some stress. Well not really stress, more like insecurity. You can't help but realize that you are gone from everyone you love, and who loves you. And friends you thought were friends, now just live their lives and move on. I love keeping my family and friends who care enough to check my stuff, and see how Wilson is doing, see how I'm doing, and knowing that I'm making them miss me just as much as I miss them! So I would say the good outweighs the bad any day.


June is National Soul Food Month- what’s your soul food? submitted by NH Girl Displaced

I love love my homemade Mac -n- Cheese. There is something sooo comforting about just cheese and noodles. MMMMM... I would also say Korean food would be my comfort food. I never get enough of it and really should learn to cook it for myself. But when I do get to eat it, it really brings me back to what I was raised on and gives me that sense of comfort. Not to mention how healthy it is for you!!

If you could live in any other era than the current, which one would it be & why? submitted by Sugar in My Grits

Oh wow! I love this question! With Gone with the Wind being one of my favorite books and movies, I would have to say the 1850s. Wouldn't want to be stuck going through the Civil War but that would be interesting as well. I would really like to see what really went down about slavery. I totally feel like, we had this great CIVIL war because people wanted to KEEP African-Americans as their slaves. It boggles my mind how people could justify keeping other people in bondage and forced servitude. I would LOVE to speak to a slave-owner from that time and really see why they thought they were okay with it.

21 June 2011

Plans...

I think for the month of July I will try to do a 30 day photo challenge. My best friend did one on facebook and I really loved going through it!

I'm going to do it on the blog though instead. Now let's hope I can remember starting July 1st to do it!

In other news, I felt the baby kicking last night! 3 good little nudges/kicks.

I feel my belly getting rounder although I don't seem to be looking any bigger yet. Just give me some time!

Our ultrasound is scheduled for July 19th, so in less than a month we will find out if we will be adding another little boy to our family, or a little girl!

I still have no inkling at all about if this baby is a boy or girl. I'm completely at a loss! With my pregnancy with Wilson, before I knew he was a boy, my intuition was telling me boy, so I wonder why I have no inkling or intuition with this new little one.

I just know I can't wait to have another sweet, snuggly, little newborn again. It's so crazy how big Wilson is, even though he is still a "baby." I miss how I just used to hold him, ALL the time!

17 June 2011

My first MilSpouse Friday Fill in!



1. Underwear Parties, how old is too old? submitted by Wookie & Co.
I'm not really sure what an underwear party is? I went to a pajama party around college age and instead of wearing something sexy like most other 20-something year olds did. I went to good ol' Meijer and found the most ridiculous Adult Footie Pajama.

2. What was your favorite class in high school? submitted by Adventures of M-Squared
My favorite class was probably Yearbook, my elective class that I did for 3 years. There were a lot of things about it that I really enjoyed. Figuring out layouts, writing stories or captions, really becoming good friends with the people you worked with, and then having the yearbook at the end of the year.

3. Have you ever convinced packers/movers to pack something they aren’t supposed to for a PCS? submitted by Ground Control to Major Mom
I have only moved once so far and I wasn't even there for the move so I have to say no! I wonder what I would try to convince them to move for me though?

4. Blogging plays a growing roll in the media. If you were asked to embed as a blogger with a deployed military unit, would you go? What do you think your blog would be like? submitted by To the Nth
Well if I weren't pregnant and had a child, I would do it. But as it is, I would have to say no. First off, I wouldn't leave my child for however long the deployment would be. If I did go, as a childless person, I imagine my blog would be very interested in the goings-on of the local community and people. Whereas if I went now, all I would be blogging about is how much I miss my baby.

5. Do you think kids should attend year-round school? submitted by Marrying the Navy
My baby is no where near school age yet, but after reading some articles that say that year round schooling helps children retain what they learn better, it is something I would seriously consider, if the schools where we would be at would offer it, I would probably enroll them in there.

15 June 2011

Hmph.

So Wilson is teething. He's got at least 3 teeth coming in, all of his first molars.

He's got the one on top right broken through, and two huge bulges on his lower jaw ready to erupt any day..

We have had fevers, grumpiness, lack of appetite, runny noses, drool, and just over all not happy baby.

I can't imagine how sore his mouth must feel, or what it feels to have to go through teething anyways, but I can tell it's no fun.

His sleep is still well although we had a wake up last night, but I think sometimes it's because his room gets so cold!

With the teething comes one sweet thing, lots of cuddle time. On his roughest day we sat in our rocking chair and just cuddled for a long time. He just laid his sweet head on my chest and sighed, and it was the most adorable and pathetic thing ever.

It really is hard being a baby, I guess. Hopefully the rest of these molars will hurry up and erupt so that we can start focusing on being a big boy and trying to learn to walk!

13 June 2011

16 weeks!


How far along? 16 Weeks
Weight gain/loss: 115.5 going to actually put the number because I didn't last time so I have no idea. I would say none so far again. I guess those stairs and chasing after Wilson is keeping me skinny!
Maternity clothes? Wore my belly band with a pair of shorts that are a little too snug haha.
Stretch marks? None
Sleep? So far not bad, I'm tired a lot though, but it is very hot here now and once again Wilson keeps me on my toes :)
Best moment this week? Looking like I have a belly-ish.
Food cravings: I want to eat everything!
Gender: Unknown still
Belly button in or out? Still in
Movement? Not quite yet.
What I miss? Nothing much yet. I guess that I was starting to finally get skinny and then got pregnant so I'm going to miss the body I had.
What I'm looking forward to: Having a cute round belly again!